Well, it has been just over a month since I left Canada for
Burkina. The last month has been full of new things and some mixed emotions.
While there are some things I really dislike about Burkina (most of them
stemming from the fact that we are foreigners and almost everyone tries to take
advantage of that) I really do love it here.
I think the most rewarding thing for me so far is that our
neighbours are starting to get to know us. At first, when we walked down the
street all the kids would come up to us saying “Nassara bonbon!”- a mix of
Mooré and French which means “white person, candy”. Now, even though we could
walk between our house and the office in about 3 minutes it takes closer to
fifteen minutes. First we stop to talk to Pierre, an older man who is the
guardian for our housing compound. He is sometimes difficult to understand
because when he speaks in French his sentences will often trail off at the end
and we are left guessing what he is meaning to say. Nevertheless, every time we
enter or leave our house we take a few minutes to catch up, ask him a few
questions, or just let him know where we are off to.
Next we pass a house with some neighbour ladies around our
age. Christianne has come over for a few evenings, usually with one of her
sisters and her niece Adela who is three. Christianne is still in high school,
but if she is able to go on to university she wants to become a doctor. Across
the street there is often a group of older women. We amuse them with our
attempts at Mooré greetings and generally leave them with both groups laughing
at our confusion over something that was said. Further along we come across a
group of younger women around our age who are doing each other’s’ hair. Usually
we only see this group on our way back to work after the lunchtime “repos” or
on our way home in the evenings. The same goes for the group of men that we
pass a bit farther along who are usually playing scrabble. We will stop to talk
with each group for a few minutes. We’ve been invited a few times to play
scrabble, but have not yet attempted to join (although we joke about how we
should be allowed to use English words as well as French). A bit farther we
come to another group of women and kids. One day during lunch we sat with them
for a while and they tried to teach us how to properly greet people in Mooré. I
remember about half the lesson, but every time we go by there we attempt to go
through the lengthy process of saying good morning and asking about their
health, family, and everything else.
Along the whole route we will also shake hands with anywhere
between ten and twenty kids. While some of them still ask us for candy
(generally the ones who are younger than five), most of the older ones now know
who we are. They greet us by shouting “Jeannette! Kat-ee!” (I started out by
saying that my name is Katelyn, but the “ay” sound seems to be a challenge so I
changed it to Kat-lyn. Now, for the kids, I just go with Kat- ee.) They still
shake our hands and usually attempt a few French phrases while we attempt a few
Mooré greetings.
Once we make it to the office we continue with the
greetings, although luckily for us these are generally all in French. Basically
anyone who is just outside or anywhere inside the office courtyard merits a
greeting. In our office itself we will then greet anyone who is already there
before taking a seat. This process is repeated when leaving for lunch,
returning after the “repos”, and leaving at the end of the day. While it can
make for a lengthy process, I appreciate the time that everyone is willing to
put into greeting each other and showing that they really do care about how you
are doing. I think that this is something which we are really missing in
Canada.
Next time you meet someone, even a stranger, try taking the
time to greet them. Ask them how they are doing. Ask about their health. Ask
after their family. Ask how their work is going. The few minutes it takes to
ask after someone may just have earned you a new friend or taught you something
new about someone you think you already know.
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